Auburn Tigers ready to rise in 2021

by Rachel Fox – Fastpitch Network

The Aurburn Tigers have burst on the scene the past several years, making trip to the WCWS in 2015 and 2016, and in his fourth season at Auburn Mickey Dean has his tigers eyes set on returning back to Oklahoma City.  They were on their way in the 2019-20 season as they started the season 16-11with wins over Notre Dame, #25 Northwestern and #18 Minnesota.  That was until COVID-19 halted and ultimately ended the season.  Dean recalls getting the call during the middle of a mid-week home game informing him the NCAA was shutting things down and ultimately sending all students home.  Dean tried to use this a teaching moment to his student athletes, about life and that things are unexpected while encouraging them play every game as their last.   

Auburn Defeats #18 Minnesota
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Team NC Finds a Role for Everyone in their Rise to the Top

Team NC

The organization has been competing at a national level for several years and finally broke through in the summer of 2019, as Nate Eaton’s 14u team won the Triple Crown/USA Nationals championship in Georgia.

Eaton’s team finished in third at nationals the year prior but triumphed by beating the Texas Bombers to cap off a 9-0 run through the tournament.

Eaton’s group, which now competes at the 16u level, is one of over 20 teams in the Team NC program, but its story is one that epitomizes what the fastpitch organization is all about.

Team NC Makes its mark in National Championships
Team NC Makes its mark in National Championships
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Denio’s Explosion Expands its Radius, Clears Setbacks

Explosion Softball

by Ryan Greenwood – Fastpitch Network

If you are not from the west coast, your first introduction to Bret Denio may have come through his role as the National Director for the Premier Girls Fastpitch organization.

When you finally get to southern California to play softball, you will quickly learn that he is also the head of the Explosion Softball organization that has some talented teams on the west coast in California, Arizona, and Utah.

“It always starts with the coaching. Look for coaches that are in this game for the right reasons,” says Denio. “I always do research and make sure these coaches are in it for the right reasons and are not there for financial gain.”

Explosion Softball - The Wind UP!
Explosion Softball – The Wind UP!
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Char Lorenz Just Scratching the Surface

Char Lorenz 2023 Indiana Magic Gold

by Kyle Parmley – Fastpitch Network

Char Lorenz is one of the youngest players on Misty Boteler’s Indiana Magic Gold softball team, but that has proven no hindrance for the rising star in the Class of 2023.

Lorenz is ranked as the No. 6 utility player and 19th player overall in her class by the Fastpitch Network, and she’s just getting started.

“She fit right into our group,” said Boteler, who has worked with Lorenz for a few years even before Lorenz joined her team. “She has a lot of potential and she doesn’t even know yet how good she is. She’s pretty humble.”

Char Lorenz 2023
Char Lorenz 2023
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Softball Parents Gone Mad

Mad Parent

by Tracey Roman

Re-Published with the Author’s Permission

As a young athlete I never understood why my parents spent majority of the innings I spent competing on the travel and high school softball circuit behind the outfield fence.   I accused them of being anti-social and rude.  Other parents hung out, had cook outs together, and seemingly more fun on the countless number of out of town weekend softball tournament trips.  My parents wanted nothing to do with anything other than watching me compete.  They would not engage in what has become sideline madness that plagues the youth sports scene.

Twenty plus years later, and with many years of competing, coaching, and instructing under my belt, I finally understand.  Parents are crazy.  They are sucking the fun and the many valuable lessons right out of the whole experience for their kids.  

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Thanks to the amazing new Zap-a-Slacker, parents are able to send a mild electrical current to their daydreamy Little Leaguers.

Who are these parents?  

Red flag #1:  They make excuses.  If their kid does not play, it is always due to the fault of others.  You will hear every excuse in the book.  Kids not playing due to politics, mixed messages on instruction and what they have learned from different coaches, so and so’s parents are members of the booster club, the coach hates my kid, blah, blah, blah.  The list goes on and on.  There is zero accountability or responsibility placed on their kid for potential reasons they are not seeing game time.  

Red flag #2:  They rip apart other kids.  They are quick to point out the flaws of other kids who see more playing time.  They compare their kid to others and typically have well prepared arguments highlighting why their darling daughter is a better athlete and more deserving of playing time.  An athlete’s teammates are very likely their friends as well. When a parent tries to make her daughter feel better by saying “I don’t know why Jenny always gets to play more innings than you, she makes a ton of errors ”,  it is very uncomfortable for her child.  You are talking behind the back of their friend and you are destroying the critical trust that teammates need in each other and their coach. Keep your thoughts to yourself.

Red flag #3:  Sense of entitlement.  These parents will e-mail, text, call, and corner coaches after games questioning playing time.  They believe with every ounce of their being that little Susie should be in the game, specifically with a starting role.  The rose colored glasses may as well be a blindfold.  They do not care or often consider the humiliation they cause for their kid by approaching a coach in this way.  Imagine your significant other contacting your boss when you have not received the raise or promotion they think you deserve.  There is only one person who looks out for the team in its entirety.  The coach.  Parents only look out for their child.  When parents question coaching decisions, player positions, playing time, tactics, and more, they undermine a coach’s authority, and the players respect for that coach. You teach your kids to question everything a coach tells them, and this makes them indecisive come game time. It also takes their focus off things they can control, like their attitude, their effort, and their focus, and turns it towards uncontrollable like coaching decisions. Yes, your child might have a coach that sees things differently than you do, but so what? If you really know that much more than the coach, you should coach. If you do not have the time or energy to do so, then be thankful someone does and support that person.

Red flag #4:  They think dropping money on the sport through private lessons, sports conditioning and specialized training  should guarantee playing time.  Achieving a high level in sports is not an experience that can be bought.  The aforementioned avenues can assist a player in skill development, but consistent results in game situations is the only currency most coaches use when drafting a lineup.  

Red flag #5:  They believe their kid has more talent or game knowledge than reality proves.  Everyone else can see it, but they cannot.  Often times these parents expect their kid to compete at a level that is not appropriate for their age or for the amount of time they have been playing the game.  There is nothing wrong in owning the fact that your kid is a work in progress. 

Red flag #6:  They are more invested in the sport than the kid.   They believe wholeheartedly that their darling daughter wants to be the best she can be in the sport yet she rarely shows interest in seeking opportunities to practice and improve without prompting from her parents.  When kids love something, they will lead the charge.  All kids need occasional prompting, but it is the exception to the rule, not the norm.  

Red flag #7:  They live vicariously through their kid, in a bad way.  When the kid plays great, life is good.  When they have a bad game, life is bad.  These parents outwardly show disgust when their kid does not play well as if it is some sort of reflection on them.  They shame their own kid by not talking to them after poor performances, or they will go through a play by play of every mistake during the dreaded car ride home, questioning her actions throughout the game.  For the kid, it is a nightmare.   Many kids come to believe love, support, and approval from their parents is conditional based on how they perform in a silly game.  Parents, please let the conversation on ride home be dictated by your kids, and unless they bring it up, not be about the game.

Red flag #8:  They expect instant results.  Much of these expectations can be blamed on our culture.  We live in a fast food world where true hard work is becoming obsolete. Becoming proficient in any skill requires thousands upon thousands of repetitions.  Applying acquired skills in a game situation is another matter entirely.    Learning to do both in harmony is an acquired skill that takes years of game experience, practice, and hard work.  We expect twelve and under players to handle game pressure the same way we see college players handle it on television.  

Red flag #9:  They do not understand the reason their kid plays ball.  Kids play sports for a multitude of reasons.  Some play because they want to be the best.  Others play simply to be a part of something and to have a certain identity within their peer group.  Sadly, some play to please their parents.  No matter what the motivation to start in the first place, the game becomes difficult when it is no longer fun.  When kids worry about their parents opinion of them based on game performance, I can assure you that the game becomes more of a chore than a leisure activity.  In my experience, when kids stop having fun, their level of success on the field decreases drastically.  

Red flag #10:  They claim they will never be “that parent”.  If a parent says this phrase out loud, they have likely already arrived.  

When done right, there are countless life lessons to be garnered through sports.  One of the most vital lessons being stripped from youth sports is autonomy.  Parents are micro-managing the lives of their children unnecessarily, destroying any opportunity for them to learn how to handle themselves on their own.  Instead of mentoring kids how to approach a coach about playing time, parents attempt to negotiate for them.  We miss opportunities to teach kids how to ask for constructive criticism, develop a plan of action, and set realistic goals to achieve new heights.  We blame coaches who are often volunteers, instead of educating ourselves in the game.  With the explosion of social media, there are a countless number of ways to learn new drills and position play.  There are thousands of  videos that can be viewed over and over again if the thirst for knowledge truly exists.  Instead of complaining in the face of adversity, teach kids how to help themselves.  They will be better in the game of softball but more importantly, in the game of life.  

Parents are supposed to be champions for their kids.  Kids look to parents for guidance, support, approval, and love.  They also learn how to behave from their parents.  Complaining is the easiest and most unproductive thing to do in the face of adversity.  Choose to model positive behaviors.  Encourage risk taking and find joy in the effort.  Celebrate the competitor above the winner. Foster independence by allowing your athlete to take ownership.   Be the fan your kid needs you to be.  

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McKaela Walker’s Allegiance and Loyalty are Highlighted by her Skill

McKaela Walker EC Bullets Mayfield 2023 Batting

by Ryan Greenwood – Fastpitch Network

Not many young players are wise beyond their age to show a sense of loyalty in the modern era of sports.  From the professional athlete to the youth player, migrating from team to team is not an uncommon occurrence.  That was not the choice or case for McKaela Walker.

“One strength that she developed at a very young age was loyalty,” said Todd Mayfield, head coach of the East Cobb Bullets – Mayfield team.  “She’s very loyal to her coaches, loyal to her teammates, and very loyal to the organization she plays for.”

McKaela Walker EC Bullets Mayfield 2023 Assessing
McKaela Walker EC Bullets Mayfield 2023 Assessing
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Empire State Huskies Provide Valuable Resources

Empire State Huskies Pitching

by Ryan Greenwood – Fastpitch Network

When you grow up in the northeast, hockey is the sport of choice to maximize your time outside playing sports and hanging out with friends.  For John Knopf, that was where he cut his teeth in sports and how he ended up getting drafted and spending time in the Vancouver Canucks organization.  

“As a hockey player, it was great growing up in the northeast. I played hockey from October on outside,” said Knopf.

After his hockey days were over, friends convinced him to give fastpitch softball a try, given his athleticism and his need for a fun way to burn youthful energy. Those times were fast and furious but gave him an indoctrination into the game.  

Empire State Huskies provide position aa well as Team Workouts
Empire State Huskies provide position aa well as Team Workouts
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Sidne Peters Relies on Mental Strength to Overcome Adversity

Sidne Peters 2023 Pitcher

by Kristen Cuyos – Fastpitch Network

An up-and-coming recruit in the 2023 class is a pitcher that resides [in] Santa Fe Texas named Sidne Peters. Sidne owes a lot of the athlete that she has become to her parents and sisters. She says that they have taught her that work ethic is key, and it is alright to fail because [it helps to] make you better. 

Sidne Peters 2023 prospect
Sidne Peters 2023 Prospect, Impact Gold Jackson
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Editor’s Note: Fastpitch Network welcomes Kristen Cuyos

Georgia Bulldogs Put in Time to Make Miracles

Georgia Celebrates RBI Base Hit

by Kyle Parmley – Fastpitch Network

Twenty years in Athens have flown by for University of Georgia softball coach Lu Harris-Champer.

She took over a Bulldogs program in its infancy in 2001, led the team to its first-ever NCAA Tournament in 2002 and hasn’t looked back since.

Georgia hasn’t missed the NCAA Tournament in 18 years and was well on its way to achieving more postseason success in the pandemic-shortened season. The Bulldogs were off to a great 23-5 start and had taken two of three in their first SEC series.

Georgia Head Coach Lu Harris-Champer
Georgia Head Coach Lu Harris-Champer
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O’Donnell’s Intensity Sustained by Inspiration, Hard Work, and Mastery

Intensity Softball - Awareness

by Ryan Greenwood – Fastpitch Network

Some might wonder if you can start a softball team, much less a softball organization, with just ten players.  Kevin O’Donnell, of the Intensity Softball organization, would have no doubts based on his experience. 

When O’Donnell started his first New Jersey Intensity softball team in 2002, they only had ten girls on the team.  

“We started with a group of ten committed girls,” said O’Donnell.  “We came from a town team.”

Intensity Softball - Success
Intensity Softball – Success
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